I have one last quotation I want to pull from Caramelo by Sandra Cisneros to share with everyone. The main character Lala says of her first love: He was my destiny, but not my destination.
     I think this is a great way to look at anything that doesn't quite work out how we plan it to. All of our mistakes and unsuccessful endeavors are just little bumps throughout our destiny taking us where we need to be: our destination.